Thursday 26 November 2015

[www.keralites.net] Respect Children views -35 tips

 

35 Ways to Respect your children views and ways to know them in a better way. Must read

1. Put away your phone in their presence or avoid talking too much on phone when they r with you

2. Pay attention to what they are saying.

3. Accept their opinions.

4. Engage in their conversations.

5. Look at them with respect.

6. Always praise them.

7. Share good news with them.

8. Avoid sharing bad news with them.

9. Speak well of their friends and loved ones to them.

10. Keep in remembrance the good things they did.

11. If they repeat a story, listen like it's the first time they tell it.

12. Don't bring up painful memories from the past.

13. Avoid side conversations in their presence.

14. Sit respectfully around them.

15. Don't belittle/criticize their opinions and thoughts.

16. Avoid cutting them off when they speak.

17. Respect their age.

19. Accept their advice and direction.

20. Give them the power of leadership when they are present.

21. Avoid raising your voice at them constantly, be very assertive but calmly

22. Avoid walking in front or ahead of them.

23. Avoid eating before them without sharing with them

24. Avoid glaring at them.

25. Fill them with ur appreciation even when they don't think they deserve it.

26. Avoid putting your feet up in front of them or sitting with your back to them.

27. Don't speak ill of them to the point where others speak ill of them too.

28. Keep them in prayers meditations always possible and teach them to pray meditation

29. Avoid seeming bored or tired of them in their presence.

30. Avoid laughing at their faults/mistakes.

31. Do a task before they ask you to.

33. Choose your words carefully when speaking with them.

34. Call them by names they like.

35. Make them your priority above anything.

Children's are parents treasure and their most precious gift on this land. They must have seen the world lesser than you but they see it in a different way which you need to appreciate. Listen to them and try giving them as much time as you can. These moments are more precious than anything in this world👍

Every parent Must read once.


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[www.keralites.net] "Always Value Time".

 

A Big difference between Money and Time. 
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We always know how much money we have. 
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But you don't know how much time we have. 
"Always Value Time".
 
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[www.keralites.net] THE MORALITY OF DISHONESTY

 

Robbers entered a bank in a small town

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One of them shouted: 
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"Don't move!
The money belongs to the bank.
Your lives belong to you."

Immediately all the people in the bank laid on the floor quietly and without panic.
 
This is an example of how the correct wording of a sentence can make everyone change their view of the world. 
One woman lay on the floor in a provocative manner.
The robber approached her saying, " Ma'am, this is a robbery not a rape. Please behave accordingly."
This is an example of how to behave professionally, and focus on the goal.
 
While running from the bank the youngest robber (who had a college degree) said to the oldest robber (who had barely finished elementary school): "Hey, maybe we should count how much we stole?"
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The older man replied: "Don't be stupid. It's a lot of money so let's wait for the news on TV to find out how much money was taken from the bank."
This is an example of how life experience is more important than a degree.
After the robbery, the manager of the bank said to his accountant:
 
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"Let's call the cops and tell them how much has been stolen."
"Wait", said the Accountant, "before we do that, let's add the $1,800,000 we took for ourselves a few months ago and just say that it was stolen as part of today's robbery."
This is an example of taking advantage of an opportunity.
 
The following day it was reported in the news that the bank was robbed of $2.8 million.
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The robbers then counted the money, but they found only $1 million so they started to grumble.
"We risked our lives for $1 million, while the bank's management stole $1.8 million without blinking? Maybe it's better to learn how to work the system, instead of being a simple robber."
This is an example of how knowledge can be more useful than power.
 
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Moral: Give a person a gun, and he can rob a bank. Give a person a bank, and he can rob everyone.

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[www.keralites.net] Relationship Is Not Finding Gold Or Silver Among The Rocks Of Life..

 

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Relationship Is Not Finding
Gold Or
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Silver Among The Rocks Of
Life..
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It Is Accepting Each Other As
Coal,
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Till Diamonds Are Formed With
Time...

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