Thursday 2 July 2015

[www.keralites.net] Children Psychology - Reasons Behind Children's Unexpected Behavior

 



​    1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate​ behavior.
    2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you have lost them.
    3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
    4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
    5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want.
    6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
    7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.
    8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehavior and you give little attention to good behavior.
    9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
    10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
    11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.
    12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion.
    13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behavior.
    14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions.
    15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right.

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[www.keralites.net] Read Ramayanam during the Ramayana Masam

 

This year the Ramayana Masam starts  on  17th of July . The Adhyathma Ramayanam of  the great savant Thunjathu Ezhthachan is normally read     for the entire month   during this period. This treasure like book    occupies a  special place  in Any Maklayali Hindu home  .Unfortunately a very   large number of Maru Nadan Malayais   do not know how to read Malayalam script  and because  of that they are  unable to read  the Ramayanam, as was the practice of their ancestors. Not only that even if  they want to play the audio , most of them  do not understand the import of those nectar like verses.  One of my young friends   who does not know how to read Malayalam requested me to type out the entire Ramayanam in English    and also give  verse by verse meaning   of the entire work. By the grace of God Rama , I started doing it.  When  I was working with the translation of Sundara Kandam of that great work ,  one day  a huge monkey appeared  before  in my flat  in Koramangala, Bangalore  , where at that time I was alone and was found sitting near my lap top. Without doing   any harm to any one or anything , that monkey left after a few minutes. This incident gave me more zest  to complete the work quickly. Over the last  two years more than  twenty five thousand Malayalis have used  my   transliteration and translation   to read Ramayana during the Ramayana Masam .  To all those   who do not know   how to read  Malayalam  I  have a request.  Play   the  video  of Adhyathma Ramayana  by Sukumar, Canada   and read  the Ramayanam in English  as typed by me, side by side  understanding its meaning . Please pass on  this  information to all the Malayalis  whom you know and preserve the great culture  of  Our  own  Kerala  and get   the   blessings of Rama.

You can find my  English typing and translation in   

 http://rajathathas.blogspot.in/

You can find the video of   Sukumar Canada  in  http://ramayanam.guruvayoor.com/

 

 

 


 


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[www.keralites.net] I Wanted to Send You This Kiss of Affection..

 

A Kiss of Love and Affection

When you really care about someone, a kiss, whether given to lips, a cheek or the back of a hand - is the best way to show it. So here I am sending you a few charming kisses, to show my affection and appreciation. I hope you enjoy these next sweet moments.

 
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Happiness is like a kiss. You must share it to enjoy it.
~ Bernard Meltzer 
 
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A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.
~ Ingrid Bergman 
 
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A kiss makes the heart young again and wipes out the years.
~ Rupert Brooke 
 
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The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer.
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.   
  
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 a bit of affection! for you dear Ji

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