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[www.keralites.net] The very beautiful picture : " AL NOOR " AHMADIYYAH MOSQUE , INDONESIA !!!

 

 
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" AL NOOR " AHMADIYYAH MOSQUE , INDONESIA  !!!
 
 
 
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Al Noor Ahmadiyyah Mosque, Indonesia

 

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[www.keralites.net] Do Not Panic Unnecessary

 


Panic attacks are caused by high anxiety which is a response to a danger or threat. It is so named because all of its effects are aimed toward either fighting or fleeing from the danger. Thus, the sole purpose of anxiety is to protect the individual from harm. This may seem ironic given that you no doubt feel your anxiety is actually causing you great harm...perhaps the most significant of all the causes of panic attacks.
Upon closer examination of the causes of panic attacks, it would appear that what we are afraid of are the sensations themselves--we are afraid of the body losing control. These unexpected physical symptoms create the fear or panic that something is terribly wrong. Why do you experience the physical symptoms of the fight/flight response if you are not frightened to begin with? There are many ways these symptoms can manifest themselves, not just through fear. For example, it may be that you have become generally stressed for some reason in your life, and this stress results in an increase in the production of adrenaline and other chemicals, which from time to time, would produce symptoms....and which you perceive as the causes of panic attacks. This increased adrenaline can be maintained chemically in the body, even after the stress has long gone. Another possibility is diet, which directly affects our level of stress. Unresolved emotions are often pointed to as possible trigger of panic attacks, but it is important to point out that eliminating panic attacks from your life does not necessarily mean analyzing your psyche and digging into your subconscious.

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[www.keralites.net] Top10 Most Common Regrets in Life

 

1. Never Resolving a Conflict

The number one regret a person can have is not resolving a conflict. Countless funerals are full of regretful friends and family that never got the chance to right a wrong. Bitterness can sour a lifetime of memories, wedging itself in between relationships and people that love each other. Don't let anger last a lifetime.

2. Not Spending Enough Family Time

For many people sending their kids off to college, or watching them get married can conjure thoughts of times growing up as a young family. Often work can come in the way of family time, resulting in distance between husbands, wives and children. Inserting a family day into a weekly schedule and making time for family vacations each year can prevent a person from having such a strong regret.

3. Not Landing a Dream Job

Going to college for years and getting a degree leads a person to begin seeking work in the field of their dreams. However, often employers are not hiring in limited fields, leaving post grads to find work in other occupations. What starts out as temporary can become permanent, with salaries and benefits luring employees into a lifelong commitment to a single company. While the money may be great, a job can feel like a rut if it isn't the job you longed for.

4. Not Saving Enough Money

For many people in their twenties or thirties, retirement seems like a distant future, not an impending reality. They may choose to defer retirement savings into other purchases for immediate gratification. This can turn into a disaster during the golden years, when money can often be tight. This is an easy regret to avoid by setting up automated investments into an IRA throughout the working years.

5. Not Having Children

Children are often viewed as distractions or inconveniences, getting in the way of careers and personal goals. Though it may seem like a good idea to not have kids, the choice can leave a person very lonely as they begin to age. It is a natural human desire to wish to leave a heritage with descendents, so be careful in choosing to put off having children.

6. Never Taking up a Sport or Hobby

Countless little boys spend their youth community sports, dreaming of one day playing for a professional league. Though not everyone has what it takes to be a professional, there are other ways to incorporate a passion for sports or other hobbies such as learning to play an instrument, or taking on a second language.

7. Never Telling Someone You Love Them

There is nothing like going to the grave, remembering "the one that got away." Sometimes it can be hard to express true feelings for someone if the outcome could mean rejection. However, holding it all inside will leave heart aching for closure. It is better to share your heart with a loved one, rather than miss out on a chance at happiness.

8. Never Traveling

Growing up, most people dream of visiting an exotic island, backpacking through Europe, experiencing the Great Wall of China, or finding love in the city of Paris. Travel is a healthy ambition that creates memories to last a lifetime. Failing to travel to a dream destination can leave a lifetime of regrets. Don't let financial circumstances or life events keep you from visiting the places that you love.

9. Never Getting a Degree

A small percentage of people successfully graduate high school, go to college, and acquire the degree that they set out for. Life circumstances can get in the way, with some students quitting college to get married, have children or go to work, never returning to school. For people who take pride in education and intelligence, having a degree is proof of their capabilities and accomplishment. It is never too late to go back to school and get the degree you always wanted.

10. Never Buying the dream home

Everyone has an idea of the perfect home in the perfect location. Maybe it's a luxurious Manhattan apartment full of chic and modern furnishings. Or perhaps it's a three story beach house overlooking the Pacific with a mountainous backdrop and scenic views. Settling for a suburban track home may be less than the expectations of an average American. One of the biggest regrets a person can have is not raising a family in the dream location they once desired


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[www.keralites.net] Farm Labourer to CEO of Software firm USA

 

From farm labourer to US company CEO

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From farm labourer to US company CEO


Sometime in the 1980s, a young woman labourer was toiling in the fields under a harsh, southern sun for Rs 5 an hour. Seated on her haunches, she lifted her head towards the sky as an aeroplane flew past. She wanted to be on the flight…

In 2012, she is the president-founder of recruiting firm Keys Software Services, which boasts of a $5 million turnover. The company in Phoenix, Arizona, sponsors H1 visas and supplies manpower to companies.

 

Her rags to riches story is the stuff of the great American dream. But Anil Jyothi Reddy's journey from an orphanage to the top of the world has been an arduous one.

Crushed by poverty after her father lost his job as a teacher, her parents decided to keep their son at home and leave their two daughters in an orphanage. Jyothi's sister ran back to her parents. But young Jyothi — then barely nine — carried on.

"When I lived with orphans I knew the pain of life," Jyothi, 42, says in a telephonic conversation from the US. It was a hard life, sleeping on floors without blankets and eating meagre meals. "I wanted someone to hold me, share my feelings when I did well at school or felt sad. Those hard feelings stayed with me. I needed my mother when I was in pain. The worst part was I had to pretend she was dead."

Jyothi's story is one of determination — her unhappy childhood incessantly pushing her towards seeking a better life. "These girls (from the orphanage) are hungry for love and are filled with a desire for a better life," says Vimla Radharami, a former matron at one of the four Bala Sadan orphanages run by the Andhra Pradesh government in Warangal.

Jyothi is now the owner of a million-dollar company, has customised homes in the US and India, owns a Toyota Camry (an earlier car was a BMW) and has "enough" jewellery.

"Her years at the orphanage taught her how to grasp reality. She always hunted for a way to make life better. The zone of discomfort is the zone of learning," reasons Uday Kumar, a Visakhapattanam-based motivational speaker and co-author of No Condition Is Permanent, a book on Jyothi's life.

Jyothi attended a government school while at the Bala Sadan orphanage. She also took a vocational course while residing in the orphanage superintendent's house and helping out with their housework. It was here she realised the power of a good job for a woman. But the dream at that age seemed distant, especially after her parents married her off when she was 16 to her jobless cousin.

After the birth of her two children, she became an agricultural labourer, working at her father-in-law's fields and in other fields. In Mailaram village, agricultural workers still remember her as friendly, keen to learn work, but often bemoaning her fate. "She used to walk around with an umbrella," recalls one labourer with a laugh.

What came to her aid was a central government scheme, the Nehru Yuva Kendra (NYK), which sought to create awareness among the young. She became an NYK volunteer and later started teaching.

"Jyothi was hardworking and developed leadership qualities here," says Mandala Parashu Ramulu, a former NYK colleague who now runs a non-government organisation. "We would encourage villagers to pool in money to build a bus shelter, for example," he adds.

She worked during the day and stitched petticoats at night to earn more. She learnt typing and studied for a postgraduate degree from the Dr B.R. Ambedkar Open University on weekends, after obtaining a BA from Kakatiya Open University at Warangal. In 1992, she bagged a special teacher's job, earning Rs 398 a month.

She had to travel two hours to reach her school, but Jyothi made the most of it by selling saris. "I convinced my sister's landlord to give me 10 saris and I got a profit of Rs 10 from each sari I sold," she says. "There were women on that train gossiping or reading books but I did not waste time. I had to support my children and I needed money."

Her job as a teacher was regularised and she was appointed a "girl development officer". Her salary shot up to Rs 18,000 — but Jyothi wanted more for her daughters and herself.

The visit of a relative from the US prompted her to try her luck in the West. She studied computers, got an American visa, took long leave from her government job, placed her two daughters in a Christian missionary hostel — and left for the US in 2000. The daughters joined her later and are now married. Her husband lives in Hyderabad and occasionally visits them.

Jyothi started by working in gas stations and cleaning bathrooms in motels. She babysat and loaded and unloaded goods, and finally landed herself a job in a New Jersey cassette shop on a $420 salary.

One day an Indian visiting the shop offered her a job in his brother's recruiting firm in South Carolina for $1,000 a month with free accommodation. Jyothi moved on.

"It was a crucial time for me. I had to deal with Americans but did not know English very well," she recounts.

Jyothi often turned to the Bible for help. "I picked up key sentences from the Bible and repeated them. I'm a crazy learner, I love learning new things. I believe God will save you if you work hard," she says simply. "That is the positive point about America. They don't look down on you; I love working in America."

She excelled in her work, picking up the trade. But a few ensuing hurdles — a company offered her a job and then backtracked, forcing her to go back to babysitting and gas station work — prompted her to start her own business.

The idea hit her when she went to Mexico to get her visa stamped: "I knew the ins and outs of the paperwork involved in getting the HI visa stamped." With her savings of $40,000, she opened an office in Phoenix in 2001. "My first placement was a Gujarati boy — I fixed him in an IT firm. And I was on a roll," she says happily.

The only dissenting note comes from her surviving parent — her mother. Recovering from a lung infection in a Warangal hospital, Swaraspathi Reddy is unwilling to accept her daughter's tale of battling overwhelming odds. "We also helped her but she does not admit that," she maintains.

Defensive about abandoning her, she says: "Our condition was very bad then. I too suffered, leaving my daughter behind and would cry for her. But I never let my sons work or suffer even for a day."

And therein hangs the tale.


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[www.keralites.net] Good Morning to all of you

 

Good Morning to all of you

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Life is too short for grievances,
For quarrels and for tears,
What's the use of wasting
Precious days and precious tears.

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If there's something to forgive,
Forgive without delay
Maybe you too, were part to blame,
So make it up today.

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Be generous, forget the past
And take the broader view,
Cast away all bitterness and
Let the sunshine through.

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If it's within your power
A broken heart to mend,

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Remember
Love is all that really
matters in the end.


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